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In this week’s issue we have a tasty collection of pieces from our writing staff. OHF Weekly Volume 3 Number 10 features articles that we’re sure you’ll enjoy:

  • Letter from the Editor: Distant Strangers
  • New This Week: Articles by Sabrina Bryant and Michael Greiner
  • In Case You Missed It: What is it about our society that we can’t seem to shake the systemic racism that soaks our culture? Here with a legacy article is William Spivey, who looks us over and gives his prognosis.
  • OHF Magazine, Issue No. 2: The Baldwin Issue

Letter from the Senior Editor:
Distant Strangers

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If you’re into streaming video (and in this time of pandemic isolation, who isn’t?) you might have seen teasers for a new release from Netflix, Two Distant Strangers. The plot seems simple on the surface: Carter, a young Black man, keeps reliving the aftereffects of what seems to be a perfect night with the partner of his dreams, but unlike Groundhog Day (1993), the familiar cousin to this movie, there isn’t a happy ending. There isn’t really even any ending. The movie just stops showing the repeating scenes in which the protagonist meets the end of his same waking nightmare.

I haven’t watched it, and don’t intend to, even though it’s nominated for the 2021 Academy Award for Best Live Action Short Film. I’m skipping it because it is another film where Black pain is centered and displayed. As a consumers of a steady diet of information on my screens, I can see enough of that when I turn on the TV or browse my social media feeds. I am not a stranger to this pain; I am familiar with it, and either dulled to its import or triggered again to despair.

The distant strangers in the film are Carter, a young cartoonist, and Merk, the police officer whom he encounters at the end of every day of his life. Carter is hopeful and full of life. Merk has a job to do and performs it faithfully every single time, to the same tragic conclusion.

If you are in any way aware or awake in America right now, you see this dynamic repeated endlessly, exchanging names and cities but with the same results: a Black person, usually a Black male, has an encounter with the police, and only the police are alive at the end. Two strangers meet, and one survives. The distance is not in proximity but in understanding: why can’t the police see the lives and pain of Black people? What is missing in these encounters?

So I ask, what are all the protests and rage and demands for justice doing to change the trajectory of these encounters? At the end of each moment I add to the list of Black Americans killed this year alone for such things as jaywalking (Kurt Reinhold) or dating a woman that a police officer wanted for himself (Robert Howard) or for telling the police to leave his property (Patrick Warren, Sr.) or, more recently, driving with an air freshener hanging from his rear view mirror (Daunte Wright).

This is frightening and enraging and discouraging. It seems as if we as a nation are locked in a perpetual reliving of the last worst day of our lives, again and again. We are distant strangers, living out lives incomprehensible to one another.

But I believe we can change this narrative, not by ignoring the events, but by first changing ourselves by getting to know one another. This magazine exists for that single purpose, to share more about each other so that we better see the humanity common to all of us—and because of that, begin to make changes in our lives in how we encounter people, how we treat people, how we make a difference in the worlds where we have some impact, and ultimately how we decide some of our most profound choices, such as whom we include in our lives, whom we hire and promote, and for whom we pull the levers in an election.

The old saying is that it is not our duty to finish the work, but neither are we at liberty to neglect it. It’s time for us to use our lives more fully so that we do the work that we can do to bring us closer to equality, to inclusion, to acceptance—and to love.

Let’s do that. Let’s love one another.

stephen matlock
OHF Weekly Senior Editor


New This Week

There’s been an uptick recently in hate crimes perpetrated against the Asian and Pacific Islander (AAPI) community. While the media focuses on the incidents involving African Americans, Sabrina Bryant points out that these communities have a history of working together—and can do so again

What the Media Misses in AAPI and Black Relations
History documents a legacy of thriving coexistence when these two groups unite against white supremacy

America is becoming browner and will soon be a majority-minority nation, and those threatened by that change are committed to political gridlock. But Michael Greiner argues when our politics reflect the diversity in our society, we’ll eliminate the government gridlock and move forward to bring about necessary changes.

Bipartisanship: A Racist Canard?
Bipartisanship is not a cause in and of itself, but is an outcome resulting from issues achieving broad support among decision makers

In Case You Missed It

For our legacy article this week, we’re highlighting a piece by William Spivey who seeks understanding the reasons why there are certain words and phrases that people cannot agree as to their meaning, let alone their validity and current context for their existence.

Why Can’t We Acknowledge Systemic Racism?
This article is about those who don’t acknowledge systemic racism—those who may admit that America had a racist past but believe that racism ended long ago

OHF Magazine: Issue No. 2, The Baldwin Issue

OHF Magazine, Issue 2. This issue’s inspiration: the prescient words of one of America’s premier authors, James Baldwin. Including articles by Rebecca Hyman, Sherry Kappel, TM Lankford-MSC, MAT, John Metta, Lecia Michelle, Clay Rivers, and William Spivey. Available now in print and for download only at our website,
ourhumanfamily.org.


Before You Go . . .

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Every day that we are alive we have the chance to make a difference. Choose to use your life today to bring about change. It will be one of the best decisions you ever made.

stephen matlock


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